Last night, our drummer, crew member, and friend, Courtlyn Lubecky, was found dead alongside her fiancé, Alexus. We don’t know all the details at this time, but we do know that Courtlyn struggled with many demons, including depression, gender identity, and drug addiction. When we started this band, we chose to base our image, morals, and musical composition on Pirates. Many people are unaware that many pirates were some of the first activists who openly fought for minorities, women’s rights, democracy, freedom of speech, and human rights. They believed all people are created equal. All people are entitled to a good life. Everyone is entitled to a life of happiness.
Unfortunately, during the 17th century, this was not entirely
possible. People faced similar issues twe face today. People were scrutinized,
belittled, and forced into a life that was not their own, all because of their
race, their sex, or their economic status. Because of this, many took to the
seas for a life of piracy, and they chose to live by the motto “A short life,
but a merry one.”
Unfortunately, Courtlyn’s life was much too short. However, Courtlyn would want
all of us to continue to be merry, no matter how long we live. When we played
our first show, I remember the adventure we had with Courtlyn at Skatopia. The
long car ride there, the hectic rehearsal process, and the lack of proper accommodations
(Mostly because I forgot to pack the posts to our tent). However, Courtlyn
stayed incredibly optimistic. She was focused, and even took time to engage
with as many fans as she possibly could. Courtlyn was a beautiful soul who
wanted to make the world a better place through music, and we think she
succeed.
However, we can’t help but to feel hurt that addiction took away our friend.
Addiction is a disease. It tears apart careers, friends, and families. There is
no shame in getting help whether you struggle with addiction, or any other
physical, mental, or emotional disorder. Don’t think that people don’t care.
Friends care. Your family cares. Coworkers care, and Mike and I care. Reach out
to someone. Call the Mental Health and Substance hotline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) to start the process to
recovery.
Courtlyn is still in our hearts, and she always will be. She loved us, our
fans, and all types of music, and we will always love her.
-David
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